Thursday, 5 October 2023

Learn How To Read Tarot Cards For Fun & Profit: Huge Demand For On-Line Tarot Readers; Will You Be One Of Them?

 

Here We Are; In The "Scientific" Age And Demand For Tarot Card Readings Are At An All Time High. A Business Model Which Is Worth £Billions In Revenue Every Year World-Wide. 

The result of this is a huge demand for people like you to earn good money as on-line Tarot readers.
The question is...can you easily learn how to do this?

Answer... Read on to find out. 


The first question is...Do Tarot Cards predict the future? The answer...No.
To expect pieces of cardboard with images printed on them to possess such power is absurd and yet many people seem to believe they do.

The next question is...Can Psychics predict the future? The answer...No.

But wait...I hear you say...what about all those stories and even personal experiences when "readings" with Tarot Card readers and Psychics have demonstrated that they have indeed predicted outcomes which have subsequently proven to be correct?

This is a valid point, but before I answer it; I need to explain, for those who are unfamiliar with how it works and for those who believe they do; what is really going on as opposed to what people in general think is going on.

According to Wikipedia ... "Tarot card reading is a form of cartomancy whereby practitioners use tarot cards to purportedly gain insight into the past, present or future. They formulate a question, then draw cards to interpret them for this end."

This is an accurate description of the process used by a Tarot Reader who is consulted by a person who seeks answers to questions regarding events happening in their life.The three important words in the above description are .. "Use"..."Purportedly"  and "Interpret".

The word "Purportedly" means according to my Oxford English Dictionary..."To profess a meaning" What Wikipedia is telling us is that whilst they are sharing the information with us regarding Tarot readings; they are not endorsing the truth of the information. 

This is healthy skecticism and I encourage you to use this throughout this article. Until you have proven otherwise to your own satisfaction; everything I am telling you must be regarded as suspect.

The next important words are "Uses" and "Interprets".

The "Reader" uses the cards to help in finding answers to questions. They do that by interpreting the meaning of the images of those cards which are selected randomly from the pack [face down].

How does the "Reader" interpret the images? 
Answer... In one of 2 ways: 
First; there are hundreds of books written by Tarot Preactitioners which give their interpretation of the meaning to be ascribed to each of the 78 cards in the deck and many "Novice Readers" learn their craft by trying to remember what the author of the particular book they purchased has told them the images mean.

A daunting and difficult task, made even more difficult by the insistence of some practitioners that there are opposite meanings when any of the cards chosen at random is upside down! 

The second way a "Reader" may choose to interpret the meaning of the images on the cards is to use their own intuition to guide them.

Memory v Intuition: Which Is Best?
Consider this. If you have read a book written by a professional Tarot Card Reader with many years experience in the ancient art; and the book contains detailed descriptions of the interpretation the author gives to each of the 78 images both Upright and Reversed...

How do you know if those interpretations are the correct ones?

In addition; if you accept that each person is a unique being whose experiences in life is entirely personal then how can each of the specific Tarot Card interpretations given by the author be applicable to every single human being on Earth in every experience imaginable?

Think about it. Does that seem right to you? What does your intuition tell you?

Before we continue; let us fully understand what the nine letter word intuition really means.

According to my trusty Oxford English Dictionary intuit means ... "Receive knowledge by direct perception; immediate perception by the mind without reasoning." In other words ... Just knowing that something is true or seeing images in your mind's eye [3rd Eye] knowing them to be true....without knowing why you know.

Every living creature; including vegetation [read "The Secret Life of Plants"] is endowed with intuition it's their first tool of survival defence. Rupert Sheldrake, Professor of Bology at Cambridge University, in England after carrying out detailed scientific research, demonstrated that animals sensed when hunters were coming for them and immediately began to hide away. All fishermen know this to be true. Just ask one.

His extensive research also showed that cats and dogs knew immediately when their owners were coming home. Hidden cameras showed the moment their owners recorded the tme they made a conscious decision to come home; their cats and dogs immediately made their way to the front door or window to await their arrival.

On a personal note: Many years ago a neighbour used to look after a cat while myself, wife and children were away on summer holiday. He told me he always knew the day we were on our way home because the cat would suddenly appear sitting by our front door and stayed there until we arrived.

You also know this intuition thing to be true from your own, your friends and family members experiences. So the question is... Are you able to use this in-built skill to help you make an honest living?

Answer...Yes indeed you can. But How?

My own opinion, based on 25 years experience in the professional use of Tarot Cards, in helping hundreds of people, from all walks of life, to understand what is really going on in their lives and what the True Cause of the difficulty and challenge they face is this...

Each of us knows, deep within ourselves, the "script" we have chosen to live our life through. One might say, in a way, we are acting the role we have chosen for ourselves in this "life-script". The people and circumstance which come into our lives are there to play their role in this "life-script" we created, all of which is there to serve a purpose.

And that purpose is specific and unique to each of us.

I know that you, and everyone who is and has lived; have experienced moments which are described as "Deja Vu" and means "Knowing you have already experienced something that, right now, you are experiencing."

You also know that this "Deja Vu" moment is REAL, not imagination or remembering a dream... It Is Real! You know you have already had the same experience.

I also believe that these "Deja Vu" moments and other "Anomalous"[wierd/spooky] events are a hint, a suggestion to your conscious self; that something hidden but extremely important is going on and you would be wise to find out what that is.

Does any of this make sense to you?

Getting Started 

Step 1... Make the decision to do it.
Step 2... Learn how to integrate your intuition with using Tarot Cards as a tool for finding solutions to personal problems and answers to questions such as Who, What, Where, Why, When and How?
Step 3... Offer your new services to your friends, family and the wider public

Step 2... Is the most challenging part. 
You may have gathered that I don't have much faith in books or courses in "Learning Tarot" that are based on remembering interpretations that are the personal opinions of the authors of these books and courses.

Instead I have 2 suggestions for you.

Suggestion 1... Go to the website biddytarot,com and look at the free and paid courses on offer from a world-class Tarot Practitioner and Teacher who can not only teach you exactly how you can integrate your intuition with Tarot Cards but also how to create and run a successful Tarot Reading Business from scratch. 
[I don't have any financial connection with Biddy Tarot, I just admire and respect her integrity and skills]

Suggestion 2... D.I.Y.
Go to...  https://www.free-tarot-reading.net/free [I have no financial connection with this site]
Here you can start to see how readings are delivered.
Go to...  https://www.trustedtarot.com/card-meanings/   [I have no financial connection with this site]
Here you can compare the Lotus Card Reading of each card with Trusted Tarot and arrive at your own conclusion based on what you "Feel" is correct. This way you are able to "exercise" your intuition muscles.

Sstep 3... Your friends and family are the best people to start practicing on before taking the next step by asking for "Donations/Fees" for the new service you have to offer.

Good luck and remember that I am available if you want more help and advice about this exciting opportunity you have to change your life and others' lives... for the better!

Thank you for reading this.
Kindest regards,
Frank Mallon


  


Monday, 12 September 2022

Learn These 7 Simple Steps and Stop Getting What You Don't Want

 

Finding the true cause of the problem or difficulty you're facing is the most important first step on your journey to changing your life for the better.

And for most people that is the major obstacle to finding a real solution; for if you can't uncover the true cause, because you don't know how to do it; then how can you create a solution? Would you agree?

Here is a quick and simple formula for success The Seven Simple Steps and I am gifting this to you now so you can begin the task of finding out why you are getting what you don't want from life... Today! 

Step 1... Your Hierarchy of Needs.

What you don't know is, there is a big difference between Wanting something and Needing it and it's this... 
Imagine for a moment that you're out shopping and suddenly you have an urge to pee. Unlike when you want to have a cup of coffee, you can choose whether to have one or not. 

When you Need to pee, you Must Do So otherwise, well...nature will take it's course. It's Not a choice. And your first step is to understand this difference between your Wants and your Needs.

Your Needs Always Come First... Your Need for Food, Shelter and Warmth is often described as your Basic or Survival Need. And it's easy to understand why it's described in that way. An adequate and sustainable supply of food and water is the basis for deciding on where to find shelter and warmth. 

Next is your Need for feeling Safe and Secure in that environment you have chosen to live in. And you do that by protecting yourself, your source of food and your place of shelter and warmth. Imagine for a moment that you were in a war zone. It's likely the last thing on your mind is where to go dancing on Friday night. 

When that's done, you begin to notice how your are relating to the others in your immediate family and community. Your Need feel you Belong and are Accepted and Loved by them. And you judge this by their behaviour toward you.

This sense that you are Loved and Valued by those in your family and community satisfies your in built Need For Self-­Esteem and is a reflection of your knowing you make a valued contribution to the greater good. In other words, this box is ticked when you are living with a family, in a community where you feel safe, secure, loved, respected and admired for your contribution.

When you don't have to worry about where the next meal is coming from and that there is clean water and a healthy environment to live in. Your confidence in yourself and your abilities begins to express itself in a different way. 

Your Need for Self-­Expression becomes overwhelming. Suddenly you begin to have ideas you want to implement and changes you know will make things better...for yourself and others. You are now striving to be the best you can be in the things you do and to create an environment where love, peace, joy, laughter, happiness and abundance reign.

Why Things Go Wrong... The mystery is, how do you know when one of your Needs is at risk? It appears you also have an in­built radar which sole job is to scan your outer world, looking for threats and when it finds one, sets an alarm bell ringing in your psyche. 

And this little bell keeps on ringing until you deal with the threat and make everything safe again. The only problem is, you don't consciously know why the little bell in your psyche is ringing. Your only awareness is you feel fearful, anxious and constantly worry about seemingly random 'stuff' but the truth is, you have never been taught that the little bell is your intuition trying to communicate with you. 

You also have never been taught how to speak it's language so you can identify the reason for your anxiety and learn the correct way to rectify the situation. Both the cause of and the solution to your problem lies within you, if only you know how to communicate properly with your amazing intuition.

In other words, when you Want something but your intuition believes in achieving that, one or more of your Needs is under threat, then you will be subconsciously driven to protect that Need by sabotaging your Want

You are effectively, working against yourself and that is why you end up not getting what you Want but what your psyche believes you Need

Did You Notice That? I said 'what your psyche believes you Need' which leads me to the other reason why things go wrong.

You Are Unique... There are no two people on this planet who are alike and what this means is....all those in­built Needs mean different things to everyone! And, what you have been taught by others to believe is true about yourself, effects your self-­esteem and your relations with your outside world. 

Step 2... Now that you know the reason why you are getting what you don't want is because of the conflict between your Want and your ; the next step is to discover what that conflict is. 

Discover Your True Needs... How is that done? Simply look at each of the different Needs we covered in Step 1 and ask your self the following questions.

"Why do I believe I Need [...]?"
"In what way do I Need [.....]?" 
"Why do I believe I Need it that way?" 
"How will I feel if I don't have it?" 
"What do I believe to be true about this Need?" 
"Why do I believe that?" 
If you do this, you will begin to identify the conflicts that already exist within yourself which lie at the heart of the problems you are facing.

Step 3: Resolving The Conflicts... This is a two stage process which begins with uncovering your True Needs. Ask yourself the following four questions. 
"If I could do, be and have anything I want in life guaranteed. What would that be?" 
"How will it look" 
"How will I feel?" 
"Why do I want it?" 

The question "Why" will generate a response which will begin with...
"Because [...]"
What follows..."Because [...]" is the Need you are driven by your psyche to satisfy

Step 4 What You Really Want... In Step 3 you asked yourself, what you could do, be and have if there was no barrier to that. If this is so important to you ask your self this. 
"Why don't I have it already?" and write a list of all the reasons you believe are preventing you. 

Looking at the list which follows that question, separate the Reasons from the Excuses and ask yourself for each of these... 
"What will I have to do to overcome this obstacle?" 
"Am I willing to do that?" 
"Why am I willing/not willing to do that?" 

Step 5 Uncovering False Beliefs... Science has proven, following years of experiments that, what you believe to be true, becomes so. 

This fact is known in Medical Science as The Placebo Effect and to Psychology as The Self ­Fulfilling Prophesy. 
But here's the thing...the beliefs you have don't have to be based on facts they can just as easily be based on fiction. 
This is evidenced by the thousands of books written about people who die, because they mistakenly believe they had a killer disease and others who don't die when doctors told them they have got a killer disease. 
It comes down to what the individual believes to be true and Steps 3 & 4 are to help you uncover your embedded False Beliefs by asking yourself...
"Why do I believe [...]?"
"Is this belief based on Fact or Fiction?"

Step 6: The Key To Living Happy... When completing these seven simple steps , you may find some or indeed all your Needs are driven by False Beliefs about yourself, other people, the world we live in, science, health, wealth and the meaning of life. 

Typically, a False Belief is identified by a False Belief Statement such as... "I can't do that because I'm....[too stupid...not good enough... too fat...too skinny...a man...a woman...too old...too young etc, etc]" And on and on it goes. 

But when you then ask yourself..."Is that really true about [...]?"  "How do I know it's true?" This is your first step in challenging those False Beliefs and it only requires a little bit of research for you to have the confidence to completely ditch that False Belief and accept what you now know is true about yourself, other people and the world we share.

You are Living Happy when your Needs are in harmony with what you really Want!

Step 7: Making It Real... To Realize something means to take it from your imagination and make it a real thing. But thinking is not enough. What is required is action by you, to make it so. 
There are literally millions of books and articles written by many learned souls on how to do this. But all of it can be distilled into one simple action step. 

When, after completing Steps 1 to 6, you know what you really want and why you want it... Ask yourself..."What must I do to get it?" 
Whatever the reply, make this commitment to yourself... 
"I will do whatever it takes to get what I really want." 
And It Will Be So

I am always available if you need help or advice on any questions araising from this article.
Thank you for reading this.
Kindest regards,
Frankie Mallon

Thursday, 25 August 2022

The Reasons Why The Label "Mental Illness" Does More Harm Than Good

 

What If...Everything you have been told about mental illness is not based on scientific evidence but on the opinions, personal dislikes and misguided beliefs of a small number of unelected but extremely influential people. 

Would knowing that change your view of The Mental Health Industry?

Now I understand that in disbelief such a travesty can be sustained in this way; you may be asking yourself "Who is this idiot and why is he saying this? After all, everyone knows that "Mental Illness" is a proven medical fact."

These are fair questions and therefore before I move to answer the second question, I will answer the first.

Several years ago, in my journey to acquiring formal training and qualifications in Teaching, Training, Personal Development and Mental Health Therapies in order to be more effective in helping my clients deal with the difficulties and challenges in their lives: I invested £2700 of my savings into an accerdited 1 year Diploma Course in Psychotheraputic Counselling.

The course is run by a well known and respected UK company in conjunction with the Psychology department of a local university.

The content of the course includes the identification [diagnosis] of the hundreds of Mental Illnesses, Phobias and Manias that appear in the official register of the Mental Health Industry; by way of the cluster of "symptoms" which each of them displays.

The particular course I chose to follow is designed to be a "Drug Free" method of "treating" patients "diagnosed" as having a "mental illness" using Hypnotherapy in conjunction with personal counselling.

So, while I do not suggest that I am an "expert" I do however have an understanding of how the Mental Health system operates and the scientific basis of it's proposal that mental "illness" is real.

But It Is Based On Sound Scientific Evidence, Isn't It?

Sadly no. In my book The Re-Invention of Witchcraft I go into more detail but the description on my website says this ...

During my research in writing this book, I purchased and read a book by a well known american psychiatrist who specialises in relationship "therapy" for couples who are having problems.

The first 5 words she utters are... "Anxiety is a mental illness"
A bold statement which, throughout the following 93 pages of her book, not a single shred of scientific evidence is presented to support it.

Why? Because as a High Priestess, speaking from the pulpit of The Holy Church of Mental Illness she is delivering a sermon directly from the Bible of Evil Demons Which Possess Human Beings that can only be exorcised by the magic pills, potions and rituals of the same High Priestess who wrote the book!

The book cover also states one of it's goals as ...
"Reasons to seek therapy or relationship counselling right now"
In other words: The entire book is an exercise in fearmongering specifically designed to drive the reader to seek immediate "help" from the author in the form of a paid "therapy session".

I looked on the author's website and although no fee schedule is published; she is quick to affirm that...
"I give no refunds" which tells me everything I need to know about the true purpose of her book.

What If...Everything you have been told about mental illness is not based on scientific evidence but on the opinions, personal dislikes and misguided beliefs of a small number of unelected, influential people? How might that change your own views about the subject?

The Re-Invention of Witchcraft presents evidence which suggests The Mental Health Industry uses mental 'Illness' as  a tool for social control and to manufacture consent and compliance from a population.

70 years ago Dr Thomas Szasz published a book entitled..'The Myth of Mental Illness' in which he accused the Mental Health Industry of; among other things; banning unwanted behaviour in people by inventing mental 'illness' and using this stigma as punishment for behaviours, attitudes, opinions and actions it and others disliked or simply disapproved of. The 'mental illness' label allows them to then proscribe unwanted, unneccessary and harmful 'treatments' as a form of punishment for the 'crime' of being 'different'.

The Re-Invention of Witchcraft  book sets out to demonstrate that; not only has nothing changed since then but, on the contrary, the same Mental Health Industry today has enormous wealth, power and political influence of Global proportions.

In my dissertation on the subject of mental "illness", I include a long list of books written by well qualified medical and scientific professionals who also are extremely critical of this industry accusing it of doing more harm than good; an accusation I fully agree with.

This additional evidence I present to the reader in order to help them; after making a thorough examination of the evidence; make their own judgement and decide for themselves which side of the fence is more comfortable for them.

Just For The Record.

I am not suggesting that human beings who are struggling to deal with the difficulties and challenges they are faced with should not be helped. On the contrary. I have spent 20 years doing exactly that. What I am saying is...Hanging a label around that person's neck which proclaims that person is "Not Normal" is not only unhelpful but is immoral and unethical.

And exactly who decides who is or is not "Normal"
It's certainly not the "patient".

And if we are prepared to accept the notion that every human being is completely unique then the concept "Normal" is absolutely absurd!

For me, the whole argument hinges on this.

A number of years ago, small group of people [nameless for now] saw an opportunity to capitalise on the fact that due to their inherent uniqueness human beings respond to thngs, including medical treatments in unpredictable and sometimes strange ways.

If this weirdness were to be identified as a form of sickness and the individual convinced they are indeed sick but not to worry because a cure can be had... for a Fee ... You can guess the rest.

Americans are wonderful 'word spinners' and their inventive use of the English language has given us some wonderful aphorisms and this one is entirely appropriate.

"If you want to know if something dishonest is happening...then follow the money"

Cui Bono...Who benefits the most from the activity of The Mental Health Industry?

Answers on a postcard please

Thank you for reading this.
Kindest regards,
Frankie Mallon

Thursday, 4 August 2022

Millions Of People Believe That Low Self-Esteem Is A "Condition" Which Can Be "Cured". But What If It's Not A "Condition"?

 

In Western Culture The Use Of Labels As A Short-cut To Defining Who A Person Is Has Become So Common That No One Bothers To Ask Whether Those Labels Have Any Other, Hidden Purpose.

What If; those Labels are in fact a means for society to "Engineer Consent" from those who are "Labeled" to stop behaving in an individualistic manner and instead agree to be the same as everyone else.

To "Stop Rocking The Boat"?

The following is a extract from my book Have The Courage To Be Yourself have a look and decide for yourself whether it's possible such a proposition could be true.

Preface

The purpose of this book is twofold. First to free you from fear that you are inferior to other people because of a mental condition called “Low Self-Esteem”.
Secondly, to show you that, those people who tell you that your behaviour, beliefs and attitudes are “Not Normal” and that you need to have a special kind of “Treatment” for you to become “A Normal Healthy Person” are either lying to you or are repeating lies which they believe to be true.
My book “The Re-Invention of Witchcraft” provides detailed evidence of the methods used by The Mental Health Industry to deceive you into believing that all Human Beings can be classified as; “Normal = Good or Abnormal = Bad”.

This book takes you on a detailed tour of the “Abnormal” condition classified as “Low Self-Esteem” to point out to you that, the methods used to convince you that there is something “wrong” with you and that you need “treatment” in order to be “healed” is nothing more than opinion and supposition dressed up as “Scientific Facts” and is in fact a sales pitch designed to take money from you.
There is nothing “wrong” with you and I say this with confidence based on my experiences both as a practitioner in Clinical Hypnotherapy, Counselling, Teaching and Life Coaching and as a researcher into the principles and practices of The Mental Health Industry.

I urge you to be sceptical about everything I tell you because I want you to do your own research and arrive at your own conclusions. 
I am challenging the Myth promoted by the mighty Mental Health Industry; which in every T.V. programme, film, book and magazine article you are likely to see; that mental ‘illness’ is real, dangerous and can only be “treated” by recognised professionals who really care about you.

All of this carefully controlled “information” is pure propaganda. 
There is a chapter in this book entitled “Recommended Reading” in which I provide a list of books written by professionally qualified people who set out their case against the image portrayed of The Mental Health Industry, and Science as having the answers to all questions regarding you, the world we all share and the universe we live in.

I will not be surprised to discover you have never seen or heard of these books or their authors simply because anyone who dares to challenge the narrative that mental illness is real, and everything they tell you is based on solid scientific evidence is ignored and given the label… “insane” or “conspiracy theorist” to silence them.

If you really are intent on changing your life for the better and you are willing to be open minded and listen to a different story, then you are in the right place.

Are you willing to do the work that is necessary for you to be free and live a happy fulfilled life? If your answer is “Yes” then you must read all of this book and read at least some of the books I recommend, and you will see and understand that what you are suffering from are the embedded False Beliefs you have regarding Who You Are and Why You Are In This Life.

That in accepting the Label “Low Self-Esteem”; what you are doing is playing a game in which someone else has given you a “script” which tells you what “character role” you are expected to play in a fake game of life.

In his fake game, your “character” has been given an “illness” which causes them to behave in “Abnormal” ways and leads to all kinds of “problems” for the “character” but thankfully a “Hero Character” in the form of a “Medical Doctor” saves your “character” from the terrible torture of this “condition” by administering healing pills, potions and magical wisdom.
Your ”character” is saved [cured] and is happy because they are now like everyone else…”Normal” .

Part 1

On The Bondage of Man

“The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government, which is the true ruling power of our country.
We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes are formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of. It is they who pull the wires that control the public mind.”    Edward Bernays “The Engineering of Consent”

Edward Louis Bernays was an American pioneer in the field of public relations and propaganda, referred to in his obituary as "the father of public relations". Bernays was named one of the 100 most influential Americans of the 20th century by Life. Wikipedia 


The ‘Low’ Self-Esteem Myth

Introduction…………Why Things Go Wrong.

Before we begin, let us first define what is meant by the word “Myth”. My trusty Oxford English Dictionary tells me that the word means… 
“A widely held but false notion: A fictitious person, thing or idea.”

You may be asking yourself, “If Low Self-Esteem is a false idea, why is it listed as an abnormal mental illness/condition by The Mental Health Industry and The Medical Establishment?”
That’s a very good question and this book sets out to help you arrive at a satisfactory conclusion by providing you with information you are unlikely to receive from the above.

With this valuable information you will be in a better position to decide for yourself whether to accept the Label of Low Self-Esteem or to reject it.
But let’s not jump ahead. For now, I want you accept this suggestion; that you are reading this book because you have been “urged” to begin to look for The Truth yourself.
And that this “urge” within you to seek The Truth, is the first step you have taken which will, eventually, take you to a point in your life where you will understand almost everything.

You intuitively “know” there is nothing “wrong” with you in the sense that you are sick or deficient in some way as a Human Being, even though you have been told you are by many people who are regarded as “Authority Figures” such as medical doctors, teachers, parents and even trusted friends.

You may have read other books and seen articles in Facebook or YouTube videos provided by Professionally Qualified people which also confirm that you have a “condition” described as “Low Self-Esteem” which prevents you being a “Normal” person but not to worry because there are various “treatments” which you can follow that will “cure” this and you will be happy.

What would happen if you woke up tomorrow morning and discovered that everything you have been told about yourself as a Human Being; the rest of Humanity; the World we all share and The Universe we belong to…is completely wrong!?
And has been irrevocably proven to be wrong.
What would you do?

Would you ignore this shattering news and just carry on living how you always have?
Or would you want to know what these New Truths mean and how they will change you and your way of life?
Do you want to know; today how to find The Truth about who you really are and why you feel the way you do about yourself, other people, life and living?
If you do; then you are in the right place because that is precisely what I intend helping you achieve, starting Today!
What you will discover as you move through this guide, is that your embedded False Beliefs are the main cause of the conflicts and challenges you are continually facing.

And if everyone else in your life is also suffering from their own embedded False Beliefs; can you see how that can be a recipe for disaster, for everyone?
Can you see the potential negative consequences when your internal False Beliefs collide with others’ False Beliefs; that war, conflict, jealousy, spite, hate, torture, murder, lying, deceit, and every form of abuse known to man is inevitable?
Can you see that if the very professionally qualified people who are urging you to believe in their “Low Self-Esteem Myth” are themselves victims of False Beliefs regarding mental illness how this will affect you and other people? 
Can you also see that if your and others’ False Beliefs can be eliminated, that all relationships would instantly become simpler, easier, and more satisfying for everyone?

How False Beliefs Are Embedded
Here’s an example for you to consider. It’s taken from a book published in 1928 by a man called Edward Bernays, a cousin of Sigmund Freud. The book is “The Engineering of Consent”.
Bernays was employed by the US Government in WW1 & WW2 to create anti-German and anti- Japanese propaganda.

The purpose of that propaganda was to change peoples’ perception of Truth as they believed it to be, to the ‘Truth’ the government wanted them to believe. 
In other words, to get them to accept Beliefs which are based on Fiction and not Fact.
Why?
Because it is a fact that, what a person believes is True determines what they think and this drives which actions they choose to take; or avoid taking, that will make their outer world [what they expect it should ‘look like’] fit their inner world [what they Believe to be True about themselves, the World and Life].
Therefore, you will often create the failure, broken relationship, or illness you fear most, because deep down within your psyche; you Believe it to be an inevitable outcome that you have no control over. That it’s Fate not False Belief.

I will explain more about this later. For now, just listen to what Bernays has to say.
“The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government, which is the true ruling power of our country.
We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes are formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of. It is they who pull the wires that control the public mind.” [My emphasis]

Bernays called this ability to control the minds of the public; ‘Engineering Consent’ because in the same way an engineer will manufacture a tool or product that will produce a desired outcome; a government can achieve a desired outcome; like making the public want to engage in the mass murder of other Human Beings; an act normally repulsive to them…by changing their Beliefs.
Why Beliefs?

As I explained earlier, because governments and their agencies know that what you Believe is True influences your Behaviour. 
And your Behaviour determines the outcomes you create or avoid creating [War v Peace] because the outcomes of the choices you make, are what you expect will happen. I will provide real-life examples of this amazing fact later.

If the public can be tricked by fake newspaper reports, staged images and actors pretending to be survivors of a fake atrocity giving lurid details designed to revolt and disgust the public mind: Their natural inclination for justice and stopping aggression can be used by providing them with a “solution” in the form of a “War of Liberation and Democracy” for example.

Edward Bernays is also known as The Father of Advertising because he brought into that industry the very same techniques he developed in his role as a Propagandist.
The goal of Advertising is to “mould” the minds of the public into believing that “problems” they didn’t know they had; can be “cured” if they purchased and consumed products and services provided by commercial companies.

If the public can be convinced for example, that “dangerous” germs and viruses are lurking in their environment waiting to pounce on them and cause death or serious illness, but not to worry because their wonderful health provider has a “solution” for them to buy right now and if they hurry, it is available today at a whopping 50% off’… profits will soar. 

Or that a new car on offer has been specifically designed to “save the planet” from extinction or indeed, any product designed to be sold by embedding a Belief in you that it, not you, has the power to create a better outcome or life for you! 

Western capitalist economies depend on their populations consuming products and services, therefore there is a basic economic need to sell, sell, sell, those products and services; so you are being bombarded by propaganda in the form of “advertising” all day, every day of your life.

At the same time, you are being exposed to propaganda/politics by mass media 24/7 which are also designed to influence your Beliefs and Expectations.
Is it any wonder then, that you may be feeling confused and in a state of uncertainty and worry without knowing why?

And what if you have also been subjected to propaganda/education designed to make you believe things about Human Beings which are False? What then?
What if you have been told that if you do not conform to “Normal” behaviours, attitudes, beliefs, and opinions; there is something “Wrong” with you and that you must subject yourself to “diagnoses” to determine which sickness “Label” you must wear for the rest of your life?

What If There Is No ‘Normal’?
How will you feel if you discovered that instead of seeing you as the wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, loving, caring individual you are; your government and its agencies Believe you are nothing more than a Heard Animal who must conform to one of hundreds of “Labels” which they have created for you to wear? 
The two most important “Labels” are…
Normal and Abnormal.
The creators of those “Labels’” want you to Believe that 
Normal = Good and Abnormal = Bad
Do you accept that a “Label” can define who You are as a Human Being? Will you allow it to?

Here’s a list of “Labels”. Which one do you choose to wear?
ITEM NEEDED
Pathetic Y/N
Stupid Y/N
Weak Y/N
Not Good Enough Y/N
Useless Y/N
Ugly Y/N
Unlovable Y/N
Unique Human Being Y/N

Many people throughout your life no doubt have called you by one or more of the above negative names and in my own case, many more not listed.

It’s true that from time to time in your life, you can put your hand up and claim, because of your past behaviours many of the various negative labels…but does that define who you are?
No! It’s just that you and me sometimes are pathetic, stupid, and unlovable because of the way our behaviour changes in response to challenges we face in our lives.

Your behaviour is a result of what you Believe is true about yourself, other people, and the situations you face and not because you are less “Normal” than other Human Beings.
When you accept yourself and everyone else are Unique Human Beings who are in this life to serve a Unique Purpose they are yet to discover because their embedded False Beliefs are getting in their way…life is so much simpler.

Are you prepared to agree that there is at least a possibility this might be true?
Consider these suggestions for one moment.
Everything which exists, from the smallest microbe to the largest galaxy, is completely Unique and that includes You!
Everything that exists on planet Earth, from the smallest microbe to the largest ocean, has a Unique purpose and that includes You!
Human Beings are not organic robots pre-programmed to consume, fight, copulate and die. You are a member of a highly intelligent species who are by nature compassionate, loving, generous, inquisitive, and creative.
All Human Beings make decisions based on their emotions, not on logic as any professional salesperson will confirm.
Why? Because you need to feel your decisions are right.
Think back to the last time you decided to buy something you want and need. How did you feel when you said ‘Yes’?

Before we begin the process of helping you understand why your life is the way it is and how you can find peace, success, health, and happiness, I ask you to consider this.
What If…There is nothing “wrong” with you?
What If…Other peoples’ expectations of you is the problem?
What If…Worrying about what others think of you is normal?
What If…Who you think you are is not who you really are?
What If…Your feelings about avoiding some people and situations are your own in-built Self-Protection system in operation and not symptoms of a “condition”?
What If…Feeling inadequate, scared, overwhelmed, useless, and a whole list of other negatives is completely normal?
What If…Everything you have been told and read about “Low” Self-Esteem is an example of “Engineering Consent” from you to comply with someone else’s decision about who you are and how you should live your life. As if your life is not yours?

Death By False Belief
My friend George visited his family doctor when a mysterious lump appeared on his abdomen. 
Following a detailed examination, the doctor told him she was sure there was nothing for him to worry about, but she was admitting him to the local hospital to remove the lump and examine it “To make sure it’s not cancer.”

The moment George heard that ‘C’ word, his widow told me afterwards, he changed from his normal, happy self into a somber, silent caricature of himself; “it was like someone had turned off the lights inside him”.

From that day he kept telling anyone who would listen that “Everybody knows, when you get cancer, you’re a gonner.”
Sadly, despite the efforts of friends, family, his wife, and the medical team in the hospital to convince George that the biopsy report; which showed there were no cancer cells present in his body; was not a sham…he died two days later because of his False Belief that he had cancer and his death was certain!

If you want to read more then please click on this link

Thank you for reading this.
Until next time.
Frankie Mallon

Monday, 1 August 2022

Never Try To Argue With A Donkey

 

This warning comes from Inspired an excellent source of wonderful comment of a practical spiritual nature.

Click on the above link which will show the full text but here is my own 'take' on this reminder to us all.

Several years ago a colleague I was working with at an Oil Refinery in west Wales was explaining to me why he believed that anyone who questions the current scientific truth that the Earth revolves around the Sun is either insane or stupid.

After he finished explaining to me that the evidence was irrefutable since one only has to look up to see this truth is self-evident and anyway; scientists know what they are doing and if they say it is so...it must be so...

I asked him "Have you ever heard of the Michelson-Gale Experiment?"

"No" says he.

I then explained to him that these two very well respected British scientists carried out a very large number of experiments back in 1925 to find conclusive evidence that the Earth is not stationary as many scientists and lay people were saying.

The object of the experiment being; to discover once and for all; if the Earth is stationary and therefore the Universe revolves around it ... or it is the Earth which revolves around it's poles and the Universe only appears to be moving.

At the same time they would be able to refute the evidence of a previous experiment carried out in 1913 known as The Sagnac Experiment which appeared to prove the Earth is indeed stationary. 

This followed an experiment in 1871 by the [then] Astronomer Royal George Biddel Airy which showed the Earth is stationary and the heavens move.

What I suggested to my colleague was, that it might be possible that because he was not familiar with this genuine, indisputable scientific evidence provided by very well respected scientists then his own absolute belief about the relationship between heavenly bodies and Earth is questionable.

And should he not look at this evidence himself and decide whether or not he still maintains that those scientists who did the work and anyone who accepts their evidence are "insane or stupid"?

His immediate reply was; since he never heard of these scientists or their work and the current truth is that the Earth revolves around itself and the Sun; the new scientific community had obviously proven these old mad ideas to be wrong and he therefore saw no need for him to consider them.

The Earth revolves around the Sun and that's that. End of discussion.

As some wise person said...There are none so blind as those who refuse to see.

Thank you for reading this.

Until next time.

Frankie Mallon

Thursday, 28 July 2022

It's Time To Ask Yourself Some Awkward Questions


The Time Has Come For You To Ask Yourself Some Very Important Questions.

Before any new project begins it's important to know Why you want it: What dream or ambition it will help you achieve: What actions to take to activate it: How long it will take and How your life will be different.

I want you to imagine now, that everything you believe is true about Who You Are: Life & Death: The Earth: The Human Race: All Life on Planet Earth: Health & Sickness: The Universe & Everything in it may in fact be completely Wrong!

Just hold that thought for a moment. What If Everything You Thought Was True: Is Not? What if you have just awakened from a dreamlike state in which you have been Sleepwalking through your life in which state you were acting as if  the life you and everyone else is living is real.

What If...you are awake to The Truth now and that Truth is...What You Believe is True Becomes Real.

What If...the outer world, your life, other people and things which you are experiencing is a reflection of what you Believe it should all look like! 

What If...you have an in-built Creation Mechanism which is designed to bring your inner world [what you Believe your outer world should look like] in harmony with your outer world by Making it match.

What If...those Beliefs about what things should look like,are based on fiction not fact?

What If...you are not Consciously Aware your behaviour and the life you are experiencing is driven by your embedded Beliefs about what everything should look like.

What If...everything you consciously desire, strive or pray for will never be yours if that outer world you want is not in harmony with what you Believe it should look like.

Now do you understand the concept Self-Sabotage?

Or to put it another way: You Reap What You Sow.

In the following days and weeks in this Blog; I will pose some questions for you to consider and I will be engaging in a conversation with you regarding what those questions mean and how you might start to uncover The Truth about Life & Living.

I will end this post by asking you to consider this suggestion.

You have probably been led to Believe that life is a struggle and we must all fight to overcome the challenges we face because the number 1 Rule of Life is... Only The Fittest Survive

But What If...a successful life and living happily is not about struggle, conflict & fighting to survive but about Giving, Receiving, Trust & Love?

Until next time.

Frankie Mallon 


Thursday, 7 March 2019

Obesity & Compulsive Eating...Can You Face The Truth?

There are millions of words, written & spoken on this issue; most of which are complete rubbish and from people who should and often do, know better. 


But since it has become a £Multi-Billion Industry, nobody involved in it is actually motivated to 'cure' you because where is the new Mercedes or detached house or professional 'expert' status to come from if you and everyone else stop being fat? 

The simple truth is; your being fat and the strange relationship you have with food and eating is an outward expression of something deep within your Psyche which is hurting.

In my experience with hundreds of clients, just like you, your pain is caused by a hidden False Belief about yourself. 

Becoming fat is therefore a symbolic representation of an emotional wound, caused by those False Beliefs; your inner self is reflecting to the 'outer world' the "Self Image" you falsely believe is who you deserve to be.
You are punishing yourself for a 'crime' you never committed. 

Until you stop self-hating and similar destructive behaviours, understand what caused this behaviour and do something to heal yourself...

No amount of dieting or similar attempts to 'fight the fat' will work. 

You know this to be true. If you want to find out how I can help...contact me now, I offer a Free Initial Consultation.